Women’s many roles places unique demands upon her at various stages of her life. A woman may need assistance from a counselor that has specialized skills in listening and solution building to help her navigating these life challenges.
All in the Family Counselling understands these challenges and provides an accepting non-judgmental place for women to explore, heal and grow. Counselling can provide a safe, secure space to explore and evaluate what you want for yourself and how to get it. Getting help for yourself is a sign of strength and courage to give yourself the life you want to live.
Saving Your Marriage- Even if your Spouse doesn’t want to come
Are you concerned about your marriage but your spouse doesn’t want to attend counselling? You don’t need to make improving or even saving your marriage conditional on your spouse attending. You have 100% control over your half of the relationship and by learning how to become more effective in your behavior, your communication and your choices, you can create a change in your relationship even without your spouse attending 1 session.
Don’t make counselling another power struggle between you and your spouse. If you are really concerned about your marriage, you can make a difference and you don’t need your partner to be there. In fact, forcing them to come probably won’t work anyway. If they are not ready they are not ready, that doesn’t mean you can’t make things better by engaging in counselling services.
We often help women learn more effective way to engage their husband and by the wife changing her behavior, she ends up getting the reactions she wants from her partner. Once they see engaging them differently they often come voluntarily.
Counselling is a not a punishment or about who is at fault. Instead, it is about learning more effective ways so that both people can get their needs and wants met. There is no need to delay improving your marriage just because your spouse doesn’t want to come.. Read our article: Marriage counselling- Going it solo
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Also helpful to understand why you don’t need your partner is: How you define the problem may ensure you don’t solve it
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Mental Health Issues: Whether you feel you have depression, anxiety, anger or compulsive behaviors such as eating, shopping or drinking these are all symptoms of being unhappy. Our Counsellor will provide practical, evidence based and clinical interventions to help you find hope and develop behaviors to a better life and relationship. If you a trailing spouse and finding adjusting to Singapore difficult, we can help you figure out how best to deal with your new life, preserve your relationship and carve a new and exciting future for yourself.
We can provide same day appointments for those in urgent need.
- Infertility: Issues related to anxiety, loss of control, excessive amount of time on the internet, relationship problems
- Pregnancy Loss
- Forgiveness in Infidelity: Why it’s an inadequate strategy
- Marriage Problems
- Family Planning Conflicts
- Parenting Conflicts creating marriage problems
- What does it mean when your partner loses an erection during sex?
- Postpartum depression and anxiety
- Anger Management Problems for Self or spouse
- Parenting Issues
- Intimacy Issues
- Marriage and Couple Counselling
- Sex After the baby- Wife loses interest
- Career/Family Conflicts
- Drinking Problems, self or spouse
- Trailing Spouse/Expatriate Issues
- Stress Management
- Sleep Problems: night wakings, difficulties falling asleep, early morning waking, dependence on Sleeping Pills
- Child sleep problems
If you are not sure how counselling might help you, contact us or call 9030 7239 for a confidential no-obligation discussion on your concerns and therapist will be to explain how we can help or make an appropriate referral.